Fellas, is it gay to be into women who are also mammals?
If you follow the men’s community grifters long enough, you realize that they don’t want guys to be happy. They’re all closeted about something or other and so deeply ashamed that they want other men to suffer and their eventual message is ALL the same:
“Real men don’t need women, just give up hoping for a rewarding relationship, learn to accept your stoic, lonely life and just live for gaining wealth and respect.”
I’ve been watching this shit from the sidelines for decades now, they ALL do this. Hooking naive guys in with promises of sex and affection and all the things that young men think they need, then later abandoning them because “dating isn’t even worth it.”
Imagine being lonely, single, socially awkward and unable to talk to girls, and the ONLY people promising to help you end up stranding you with nothing to look forward to.
These people need to be purged from Earth. I cannot fathom how more and more men are latching onto this shit even as statistically, they are more lonely than ever before. Someone explain basic math to these kids.
Well said!
And I will emphasize that this point:
just live for gaining wealth and respect
is part of the problem with the whole conservative strong male image before you even get to the relationship status. I was raised to think that way, not being explicitly told that but it being an ingrained part of the culture.
And even THAT is a subset of the value placed on conformity and pursuing the goals you are supposed to pursue rather than what brings you actual fulfillment.
I cannot fathom how more and more men are latching onto this shit even as statistically, they are more lonely than ever before.
Because toxic masculinity communities are one of the few online spaces which don’t stigmatize you for being a white male and daring to have problems in your life despite your “privilege”.
If people stopped talking down on young males and actually listened to their problems, all these toxic masculinity gurus wouldn’t get the tiniest fraction of the following they have. But as long as we keep pushing onto them all the sins of everyone who ever lived with their same gender, they’ll end up falling in those communities which turns them into Andrew Tate replicas.
The problem with this is, and it drives me crazy, I keep hearing “if we talked to them-”
I’m a woman! They won’t talk to me! Or, if they do, it’s to tell me why I’m wrong, because I’m a woman! This isn’t something I can deprogram away!
And trust me, I’ve deprogrammed right-wing shitheads before, who weren’t also misogynists. I can’t do shit for the ones who aren’t willing to talk to me. And the worst part? I have gotten lots of seemingly hopeless people into committed, loving, long-term relationships through the power of just listen to me, I can help you, but nooooo! I have breasts! I’m almost 40! I have a happy, long-term relationship, and I’m a woman, so what can I possibly know!
I’m sick to death of ‘we just need to-’ No we don’t, because we can’t. Men need to. Men need to break through this toxic bullshit because we, and by this I mean, women, literally can’t. And trying- and trust me on this because I’ve tried- trying only gets abuse.
I really can’t underscore this enough. The wall I come up against is, what do you know, you’re a woman. “We” can’t talk our way out of this one. The problem of toxic masculinity intentionally boxes women out, making it nigh impossible for women to help.
I know. The main thing they need is a non-misogynist male role model, which is becoming increasingly hard to find because apparently social media algorithms encourage the type of content that pushes them in the opposite direction.
Realistically, imo, the main way women can help with this, besides talking to them very early on (VERY early on, as Tate-types are unfortunately gaining traction in school as well), is trying to combat the misandrist narrative that keeps on growing in feminist spaces. One example is the whole Bear debacle, which furthered the divide between genders even more. If people (in general, I’m sure many men shared it as well) keep making stuff like that go viral, it makes it harder and harder for young males to develop any sort of empathy for the opposite sex.
I find it very difficult to empathize with the ‘bear thing,’ because, as my fiance (who is a man) put it, ‘I don’t know why anyone would pick any other human over the bear. Bears tend to avoid you and do your own thing. Humans are unpredictable.’
From that perspective, it seemed like a lot of people just got mad because they identify with the word ‘man,’ here, and don’t want to think of themselves as capable of evil. Which would be naive, because everyone is capable of anything.
Bears don’t “tend to avoid” any more than people do. There’s dangerous people that would assault you, and there’s species of bears (i.e. Polar Bears) that would definitely attack you on sight.
But the whole thing is not about the technicality. The videos were very clearly framed with emphasis on the gender of the human, they got extremely viral and millions of young males saw women saying stuff like “at least the bear would kill me instantly”. How do you think they felt, as kids that probably never even had a relationship before? You think that “helped them understand the women’s point of view” like they said was the purpose of the video, or brought them in the opposite direction, making them feel like they’re some different species, impossible to relate with, planting a seed that will only grow through the indoctrination of all the online toxic masculinity gurus?
Enough with the “Men vs. Women”, especially online where young kids will see them without any context of why is that happening. Both sexes need to do their best to stop prejudices towards the other inside their groups, and only then we can have a serious and understanding conversation. Of course that’s hard to do between algorithms and bad actors, but there’s really nothing else we can do at this point, since the large majority of both camps is entrenched in their opinion and will only listen to people of their own gender.
I know broadly that the left has pretty much abandoned any talk making people’s personal lives better and instead has tripled down on the idea that “bad people are bad” for the sake of some lofty and impossible ideal of a star-trek world so liberals can broadly feel like they’re a part of some social good. Look at the votes here now, we have created a reactionary space exactly like the right.
Dare suggest that young men have ANY problems? STRAIGHT TO THE NAZI-RIGHT WITH YOU. Never mind that these are kids who have never felt an ounce of privilege in their lives, so telling them they’re entitled instead of talking to them and giving advice for getting girls and romance just pushes them away. But it just feels so good to hate a side though, right???
But that damage is done. We have a massive rightward swing in the US because we mismanaged fucking talking to each other. Like tripping and breaking your skull while laying in bed. We deserve this mess honestly.
We have created spaces where people with any differences are segregated and you will get roasted in places like this for reminding delusional lefties that even if we got our socialist revolution (which someone else will lead, aannnny day now), we would still have to live next to hundreds of millions of people who didn’t want it. That usually draws a lot of ire because it’s not optimistic enough and involves the uncomfortable truth that we share a world with people who aren’t going to always “get it” and we need to work, live and talk amongst them. Forever.
Where i’m baffled though is the basic math. Younger people are having less and less sex and relationships, people are broadly staying single and not dating or having any intimacy well into adulthood and often have NO plans to date or have a family even, so how is this eruption of sweaty used-car-salesmen making traction? There are no success stories, it’s entirely manufactured. It’s no different than the flat-earth movement but for pudgy white teenage boys.
We are a species that rather withdraw into our own narratives than face reality and it will be our great filter.
Where i’m baffled though is the basic math. Younger people are having less and less sex and relationships, people are broadly staying single and not dating or having any intimacy well into adulthood and often have NO plans to date or have a family even, so how is this eruption of sweaty used-car-salesmen making traction? There are no success stories, it’s entirely manufactured. It’s no different than the flat-earth movement but for pudgy white teenage boys.
The “success story” is Andrew Tate, and probably even people like Musk or Trump. They see how extremely misogynistic people manage to get with multiple women nonetheless and get fooled into thinking being “stoic” and generally a jerk is the key to getting laid. They don’t realize that those people are just rich and are getting laid despite their personality, not thanks to it.
Then there’s also the ones who are fully aware of this and are sold on the “grind mentality”, so that they can get rich like them (again, missing the point on how all of them either did it through crimes, were born rich, or both).
Of course if you look at it with some logic it all falls apart, but you can’t expect young people to have enough knowledge to do this. They need some positive role model to tell them right from wrong, but it’s becoming increasingly hard when the negative ones keep springing up like mushrooms.
We have a huge problem which is endemic and fundamental to progressive thought, which is that good, reasonable progressive thought which includes concepts like consent, like working towards better outcomes for more than yourself, empathy and respect and caring about community… those are developed over time in most people, they’re mature concepts that come with a lot of growth. They may be particularly alien to someone who grew up in less-than-favorable environments.
So we develop these better ways of thinking, then lecture younger, dumber kids with it expecting it to land on a 17 - 22 year old boy who grew up in electronic-distractionworld, who is just fucking horny and wants to date girls but can’t reconcile that with their crushing isolation and social insecurity. To them it sounds like “blah blah blah, you’re bad, masculinity is toxic, blah blah” and they reject it just to feel strong and cool. The Tates have leveraged this and built a 2-dimensional cartoon icon around this and have ridden this grift all the way to the bank. By the time the kids realize it’s not working for them, they’ve already also swallowed every right-wing, anti-intellectual pill along with it and are just bags of hopeless hate and profound sexual insecurity.
And our so-called adults are also too fucking distracted and isolated to remotely feel like the “adults in the room” anymore.
I feel like I’m getting close to being an “old man yelling at phones” meme, but I have watched this culture of short-attention-span pandering absolutely ruin intelligence and culture in our modern world and it’s infuriating.
Yup, all of this is true and it’s sad how people with influence fail to understand this.
You talked about 17-22 yo, which definitely feel negatively about people lecturing them on what they feel is an irresistible primal instinct, but another big issue is that, in the digital era, even younger kids are exposed to that. Older teenagers may feel like something they did is seen as terribly wrong and be angry at that, but there’s younger ones that probably can only think “…what did I even do? Why is everyone angry at me just because I’m a boy?”.
And guess who comes in to give them “answers” when they’re in that confused and vulnerable state? Yup, Tate & friends. Really, they’ve figured everything about how to make as many people as possible fall in their rabbithole to profit from them, and we’re doing nothing to stop them. Even Tate was arrested only because he did some heinous shit to people “working” with him AND boasted about that, otherwise he’d still be around. We need some serious regulations on social media algorithms, but I doubt we’re ever gonna see those in our lifetimes considering who’s in power.
We need some serious regulations on social media algorithms, and I doubt we’re ever gonna see those considering who’s in power.
I remember when we looked at China’s authoritarian social controls like “holy shit that’s bad” and now I’m sighing pretty hard. I’m sure there was a better line we could have walked, but it’s too late for any of that. We are gonna have to crash and burn as a whole culture before we see the pendulum swing back in the other direction. Just poopin back and forth. Forever.
This is the ideal female body. You may not like it, but this is what peak performance looks like.
Of course it’s peak performance. Even my phone can render this at hundreds of FPS.
What’s so funny about that is that her breasts were an accident. One dev entered a wrong number into the polygon for her breasts and it got that result. Everyone found it so hilarious they kept it in.
And then from then on, entitled men were like “I refuse to play any game that doesn’t sexualize this character’s exaggerated breasts.”
That probably started with Chun Li a few years earlier.
I meant specifically with that character. I’m not saying Lara Croft was the first sexualized video game character.
Chun Li’s sexualización absolutely had an effect on me and many of us I’m sure. Tiger uppercut!
We all know why Elon shaped his truck like that
Cubeboobies
Cuoobies was right there.
I like it.
I remember reading the developer made the main character a woman because it’s easier to look at woman than a man…or something along those lines.
What’s interesting is that the ones who don’t have peach fuzz are men who shave. If a perfectly smooth face is what you find attractive, you want a man’s face.
Latest news.
Shaving? Gay
Beards? Gay
Check mate wokies!
You must have meant wookies.
George Michael proto-beard? Macho as fuck.
Are you saying women can’t shave, for some reason?
Women shave all the time, they just don’t tend to shave their faces.
There is plenty of women who shave or pluck facial hair.
Generally not the entire lower face, the way men do.
hopefully that’s restricted very visible hair that they don’t want. not fucking peach fuzz, that would take ages and provide no benefit except maybe make that maidenless dipshit in the op happy.
you know… this was essentially my experience getting my first glasses. So much hair EVERYWHERE on EVERYONE. what if OOP just needs glasses?
also seeing individual blades of grass far away was insane, felt like a superpower.
Watching leaves in a tree blow and move about…
I remember seeing the grass textures in the first Halo game and being blwom away by the texture, guess thats the closest i will feel to what you describe. (I have 20/20 vision)
When I got my glasses at age 10, I stepped out of the optician’s door and instantly was amazed that you can actually see individual tree leaves
So I can relate
Yesss… my first contacts were exactly like that.
I had a hill, maybe half a mile, from my window, and I saw that it had green foliage on it, just green mush all over.
Then I put the contacts in, and I could see the trunks and even leaves moving in the wind!
Contacts didn’t last long, I had issues, went back to glasses. After a while, decided to try lasik and OH MY GOD the world is so beautiful and detailed.
Also there is dust and hairs everywhere.
That was more than a decade ago, my vision is slightly worse, but still above average. If you are unsure, definitely get the best laser you can, it will surely change your life.
Hopefully in a good way.
Yall seriously trying to tell me women are mammals?
THE WOKE MIND VIRUS HAS TO STOP
Not just mammals. The woke leftist mind flare virus is trying to convince you that FEMALES are actually HUMAN!!!
Don’t be ridiculous. Everybody know they are property. /s
The woke mind virus is trying to convince you that humans are distinct from property.
You’d think the literal apocalypse happening would be an acceptable justification for not being dolled up 100% of the time, yet here we are with Aloy.
And honestly, she looks pretty good for someone socially ostracized her whole life, not having a mom, and roughing it her whole life in a cabin that doesn’t have running water. It could be a whole lot worse than just peach fuzz 🤷♀️
tbf the apocalypse did not stop her from shaping her brows and wearing makeup
Yep, most male gamers who take issue with Aloy can’t tell she has some light coverage, and then criticize her for not wearing makeup and being ugly, which is amusing. And sad too, that even wearing makeup doesn’t satisfy their impossible standards because it’s still not enough makeup.
Maybe Aloy plucks? Some people just have great eyebrows without having to do anything, and I am jealous of those people.
For the PS6 re-release they’ll include the smell-o-vision of a person from a world that has never heard of soap, deodorant, or toilet paper.
people would literally kill scalpers to get their hands on the hardware
So everyone will be forced to smell a typical anime convention
HZD spoiler
If I were reconstructing the entire biosphere, unless I had a really good reason, I’d leave out bacteria that made people stink, and especially endemic diseases like Cutibacterium acnes which are unavoidable today but didn’t always affect humans. There are good reasons to think that no one had acne until about 7000 years ago when people started cultivating grape vines and picked up something that lives on them, and that could be true after the apocalypse if Gaia didn’t choose to put the same thing on grapes.
So not much change for some of them
Can’t wait for the new Conker
I AM THE GREAT MIGHTY POO
AND I’M GOING TO THROW MY SHIT AT YOU
A HUGE SUPPLY OF TISH COMES FROM MY CHOCOLATE STARFISH
HOW ABOUT SOME SCAT YOU LITTLE TWAT?!
Some people will be super into that and I’m happy for them. I’m not buying consoles anymore, so go nuts you weirdos.
Horizon–the game people hate not because of its quality, but because woman.
thank god they rectified that with horizon forbidden west
Wait until they hear about women’s mustaches and armpits! When I used to sneak looks at Playboys as a kid, bush was all the rage. Now at 33 as a gay man, bush is still rage. I love hair on everyone!
Oh god yes. As a gay man? Give me ALL OF THE FUCKING HAIR. I wanna get carpet burn while sucking dick, thank you very much. No /s tag because I’m not being sarcastic.
This guy fucks on a shag carpet.
I think that’s why the british/Austin Powers call it shagging
Actually, you have that backwards, you see, the act was known as ‘shagging’, from the old english ‘shagadelic’ meaning excellent or enjoyable, long before the carpet existed. The style of carpet was found to be ideal for ‘shagging’ on, especially in groups, as the long fibres reduced slipping. Thus it became known as ‘shag pile’ due to the piles of ‘shaggers’ often using them.
This post is brought to you by the letters B, S, and insufficient sleep.
BS my ass. This is now canon.
Thanks for the comment, it rather made my day.
My wife is the first woman i have properly been with, and i find myself staring at her moustache when she’s watching the TV and unaware.
Im in no way turned off by it or anything like that, it’s just fascinating to me somehow. Like 6 years I’ve been with this woman and I still can’t stop.
As a bi woman, absolutely. I’m personally one who doesn’t like falling behind on my shaving routine, but hair looks wonderful on anyone who chooses to grow it out. I may or may not have a weakness for crunchy granola girls myself. 😳
Oh god, I’m not usually one to horny-post but crunchy granola girls 💕
Long tangled hair, perhaps a bandana, no makeup, cargo shorts or flowy elephant pants, unshaved pits and legs, a human smell (and maybe some patchouli).
I knew a crunchy granola girl who rolled her joints using raw rotini noodles as the filter, proudly declaring to everyone in the smoke circle “it’s biodegradable!”, she was amazing.
I feel so lucky. My girlfriend has pet cacti (including a bunch that are genetically the same cactus), art covering every wall (and a blanket pinned to the ceiling), pretty much all of her furniture (except her bed) was rescued from curbs or otherwise obtained through second-hand sources. Her pillows and blankets are a mix-mash of colors and textures, as are the cups and mugs in her cupboard. She loves to bake vegan treats and do needlepoint, and looks amazing in a summer dress.
When we were hanging out on her porch last weekend, a little bird kept coming really close to us and chirping. The lil guy looked straight at us, from one chair over, and chirped at us. He did this several times, over separate occasions (we went inside for a while here and there.) My girlfriend and I even chirped back at him, and he responded like it was normal. The last time we saw him was just before sunset. He appeared out of nowhere as soon as we sat down, perched on a chairback across from us, gave us a single loud CHIRP, and disappeared into the night.
He had no fear. Maybe he was curious? I don’t know. But I’d like to believe our Sapphic Vegan Fae Magic is beginning to manifest.
“Sapphic Vegan Fae Magic” is such a vibe expression, ngl
Bush is awesome. I still have an original vinyl pressing of Sixteen Stone!
I’ve always felt kind of marginalized in my enjoyment of women’s pubic hair. I don’t fully agree that liking it shaved is a definitive sign of a pedo, but I do hate that weird worship.
i genuinely cannot process the concept of finding pubic hair unappealing in general, like yeah sure if it’s like 10 long hairs that’s a bit weird but the same thing applies to hair anywhere on the body so eh, and 95% of pubic hair looks good
What do they think, women are lizards. People have hair.
You’re talking about a segment of the male population who watches more cartoons than they spend time around actual humans.
This pisses me off on a personal level. I dated a girl with a small peach fuzz mustache and she was the sweetest person I ever went out with. That peach fuzz stache is part of what made her so sweet and so adorable.
Peaches are sweet. Peaches have fuzz. Makes sense.
It also makes me wonder, do the people who post stuff like this not have mothers or sisters? Any women in their lives they might see on a casual day without a fresh shave or makeup?
They never hug their mother because they think it’s embarrassing and gay.
They say ‘cringe’ now.
That’s gay.
cringe
They are never that close to another woman to see it, let alone touch their skin to feel it.
Too much porn or instagram probably makes them have unrealistic views on women.
Also, fellow JoJo fan spotted!
These gamers need to watch My Big Fat Greek Wedding
Half of these kids would melt into a pool of their own jizz if they spent a moment around and actual live, breathing female human with skin and personality.
The other half would run screaming because they’ve broken their own minds long ago and are just giant wads of repressed sexual insecurity and self-hate.
Es increíble cómo se ofenden porque nos imaginan como seres mágicos impolutos, distorsionando nuestra existencia completamente
Uno de los resultados de una mente cerrada.
Why don’t you like fuzzy peaches?
Sorry to play into toxic masculinity, but I can’t help myself: the kind of people that complain about this are the kind of people who have never gotten laid and never will because they act like this.
