Well, I’m on year 12 of my bachelor’s degree and I’m unfortunately not bi. So, not great?
Unfortunately
Your phrasing seems to imply you’d like to be, have you tried?
Well, looking at masc people doesn’t give me the happy feelings like looking at fem people. That isn’t to say that I necessarily wouldn’t enjoy sex with masc people, but I’m not attracted to them.
hey, it took me 7 and i tried 8 different majors. i only left because at year 5 i hated the school and picked the fastest degree to get me out of there. my wife took longer than me. you’ll get there.
I managed in 6 years, if I include the associate’s degree I got to fix the 2.5 wasted years. And I think going as to undergrad at 18 should be seen as precocious. Backpack around a bit and learn who you are as an independent adult.
Or you might discover you have a lot of unresolved trauma and fall into depressive states easily in the middle of a semester.
Probably not just a “me” thing.
I’ve known my major since 6th grade. Never swayed. I do intend to get there, though, come Hell or high water. It’ll look better on a refugee application.
I’m not bi?
Ok, pansexual. Same difference 🤷♂️
I mystified as to how bisexuality fits into all this.
Neurodivert folk seem to have an easier time not blindly going along with social norms simply because that is how everyone else behaves.
Yeah right make a post about being smart and gay and suddenly everyone can relate
I was gifted Harry Potter 1 on my first school day and had read it through by the next morning. Fast forward to now: I haven‘t read an actual book in 2 years, too burned out by ADHD. Fuck me I guess!
Edit: also, fuck the school system.
I don’t know if it’ll work for you, but I often can’t read for long periods anymore either. Audiobooks aren’t enough stimulation on their own, but if I find a combo that uses just enough of my brain, I can make it through quite a bit.
For me personally, I play Mario Kart on a muted TV often while listening to books.
That‘s a good method, yes. I mostly listen to podcasts discussing books, which to me is the perfect level of stimulation. Might also try to listen to and read the same book simultaneously.
I don’t know if I should feel better or worse knowing that I’m a whole ass archetype.
Yikes, this describes me eerily well.
Not bi, and I was never in the gifted program.
But I found out I’m neurodivergent at 39, and it explains so much.
I hope everyone is doing well. Seems that my story echos many of yours.
The school system yes but also the problem is much deeper, as capitalism is a hell system that grinds away at human joy, stifles personal growth, and recontextualizes all genuine passion towards evil. In this essay I will-
I’m not angry at the school system because my schools were well funded and well managed but otherwise
Oh I am LIVID. FUCK the current state of US public education and FUCK cars (angrily and not with sex) too, while we’re at it.
Related: ||I’d strip you naked in the corner of a Wendy’s (with consent ofc ||(my point is yes I swing many ways))
Uncanny and comforting that so many people had the experience we did.
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It’s odd that so many people want to respectfully say they arent bi 😂
It’s because it’s the only thing that doesn’t hit home, the rest is a given
Not 100% straight, but I’m definitely heteroromantic, at least.
Other than that, yeah, things are going okay personally. World’s fucked, but I’m doing what I can. Thanks for asking.
That’s a lot all in one package.
