• Hominine@lemmy.world
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    8 months ago

    Wow this thread is a straight condemnation of Lemmy’s high-horse. It’s wild that the comment above yours is neutralized on votes and yours is so far in the negative. What did you do that was so worthy of condemnation? Express concern for another human being’s family.

    Of course, people here will tell you that billionaires discount lives on daily even while they discount the lives of the loved ones of this woman. Were all of them billionaires? Perhaps. Regardless of the size of their pockets we do know that they are human.

    Folks that lean left generally understand what it’s like to be caught in the circumstances of your birth. It’s incredibly telling that this self-same group finds it so easy to dismiss the value of this human life and those around her.

    You’re right to be concerned for the well-being of others, and I believe I’m right to be concerned about the company we’re keeping here. It’s seemingly a group of people that will dismiss the death of someone wealthy, even while they assume the wealthy will dismiss the death of the poor. I wouldn’t say it’s entirely incorrect even though it’s just as morally bankrupt.

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      8 months ago

      Your empathy for unempathetic people is depressing. Stand up for yourself better.

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        8 months ago

        I fail to see how not having a modicum of empathy for this person’s family after their horrific death qualifies as “standing up for myself,” but do feel free to explain this worldview in detail.

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          This person would have no second thought at you dying in this car. Or your family. Therefor you are defending and standing up for someone who would trash you. It’s just sad to watch from the outside is all.

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            This person would have no second thought at you dying in this car. Or your family.

            Even if this were true, are we to assume the same of this woman’s grandchildren? Her distant family?
            Regardless, I fail to see the need to laugh at a terrible death, and that is certainly not standing up for anyone’s moral compass but my own.

            The sad state of affairs here is how far you and others like you are removed from your humanity.

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              8 months ago

              I don’t recall saying you should laugh. I recall saying you shouldn’t have empathy.

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                8 months ago

                No, the top level comment refers to laughter and that is specifically what I am speaking out against here.
                And yes, I do have empathy for the family members of this woman and I find it telling that you let that slide by.

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                  I haven’t let anything slide by. You are making assumptions about my character simply because I have no empathy for a single person because of their choices that led them to die. Again. I, Me, Santa did not say laughing is okay.

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                    You jumped into the thread unwittingly then, and I am glad you have some amount of concern for such frivolity at the conclusion of a horrible death.

                    However, I clearly and repeatedly highlighted OP’s and my concern for the family, and yet again you seem to have missed that.

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                    You are making assumptions about my character simply because I have no empathy for a single person because of their choices that led them to die

                    You bet your ass I’m judging your character based on this.

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        8 months ago

        Empathy is not the opposite of standing up for yourself, though thinking so does explain a hell of a lot of leftist politics these days.

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          Depends on the context of the situation in my opinion but I understand where you are coming from. I’ve found if someone has no empathy for me. I should not return the favor to them as they’ve shown their hand. Does that make me spiteful? Probably. But I really love the quote. “Listen when someone tells you who they are”. As you can tell I’m callous and don’t have empathy for billionaires or ultra rich.

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          This is hilariously stupid, like genuinely ask yourself how Rage Against the Machine would feel about a billionaire dying.

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            Would you consider RATM an authority on how I should feel?

            I mean, fuck billionaires in any sense that actually matters. They shouldn’t get to hoard wealth while real people can’t afford housing, medical care, etc. At the same time, I refuse to laugh at a human being drowning to death. Literally nobody deserves that. I’m also morally opposed to the death penalty.

            Maybe I’m just not hardcore enough.

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      It’s okay. I realize lots of people are suffering and as a result tensions are high. I didn’t mean to make everyone so angry and I realize my initial comment of ‘have some humanity’ was to harsh. I’m sorry I made so many people angry with this.

      I do feel bad for the people that loved this woman regardless of how much money she has. I don’t wish that pain on anyone.

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        8 months ago

        You’re fine, this gets out of hand quick and I ended up feeling for someone that was getting pilloried in the snap-back.
        Thanks for the thoughtful reply and have a great week.

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      So much online discourse I’ve seen on here is just the same as Reddit. Stripping the humanity of people you don’t like. It’s just tribalist, cringey, and narcissistic.

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        8 months ago

        Not really; did you grieve for people you heard of dying in the news the other day? Grieving isn’t just being sad for a brief moment then moving on with your day.

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      Folks that lean left generally understand what it’s like to be caught in the circumstances of your birth. It’s incredibly telling that this self-same group finds it so easy to dismiss the value of this human life and those around her.

      You seem to have attributed feelings of people here to one side or the other, how and why? Do you have a record of how each person leans politically?