• pelespirit@sh.itjust.works
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    2 days ago

    eh? What would that look like?

    That’s why I feel like homophobia is something that should be less reviled, and more looked at as a trauma inflicted on the homophobe

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      2 days ago

      Not entirely sure… but I think you have an issue with the premise of my statement first, if you’d like to discuss that?

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        No, I don’t understand what you’re saying. What would “looking at as a trauma,” look? Would they go to therapy for the trauma inflicted on them for being hateful? I don’t know what you’re saying.

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          That the trauma inflicted on them drove them to be hateful, not the trauma inflected from being hateful.

          The hate as the result (as in, an unhealthy coping mechanism), not the cause.

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            2 days ago

            It seems like a difficult thing to do in practice. You wouldn’t know they had trauma until they started acting out their hate.

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              That’s the trauma, the oppression of their own sexual freedom which leads to homophobia

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                But, how would you know to treat it before they acted out their hate? Are you saying we should have compassion after they acted out their homophobia?

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                    Absolutely. Is that what you’re saying you want? You’re being extremely dodgy about what you’re saying. I’m not trying to go after you or anything. I honestly don’t understand.