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minus-squarecurbstickle@anarchist.nexuslinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up18·2 days agoThat the trauma inflicted on them drove them to be hateful, not the trauma inflected from being hateful. The hate as the result (as in, an unhealthy coping mechanism), not the cause.
minus-squarepelespirit@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up1arrow-down1·2 days agoIt seems like a difficult thing to do in practice. You wouldn’t know they had trauma until they started acting out their hate.
minus-squareKrudler@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up9·2 days agoThat’s the trauma, the oppression of their own sexual freedom which leads to homophobia
minus-squarepelespirit@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up1arrow-down1·2 days agoBut, how would you know to treat it before they acted out their hate? Are you saying we should have compassion after they acted out their homophobia?
minus-squareclassic@fedia.iolinkfedilinkarrow-up10·2 days agoCompassion and accountability can be concurrent
minus-squarepelespirit@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up1arrow-down2·2 days agoAbsolutely. Is that what you’re saying you want? You’re being extremely dodgy about what you’re saying. I’m not trying to go after you or anything. I honestly don’t understand.
That the trauma inflicted on them drove them to be hateful, not the trauma inflected from being hateful.
The hate as the result (as in, an unhealthy coping mechanism), not the cause.
It seems like a difficult thing to do in practice. You wouldn’t know they had trauma until they started acting out their hate.
That’s the trauma, the oppression of their own sexual freedom which leads to homophobia
But, how would you know to treat it before they acted out their hate? Are you saying we should have compassion after they acted out their homophobia?
Compassion and accountability can be concurrent
Absolutely. Is that what you’re saying you want? You’re being extremely dodgy about what you’re saying. I’m not trying to go after you or anything. I honestly don’t understand.