transcription: why are men so afraid of being falsely accused? just stay inside, dont put yourself in situations like this, dont go out alone especially at night, dont drink, dress modestly so women dont mistake you for predators, always be polite so you dont “provoke” women

  • Binzy_Boi@piefed.ca
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    14 days ago

    …because it’s happened to me before?

    Had an ex in junior high tell friends and others that I tried forcing myself onto her after I didn’t feel comfortable getting intimate with her like that when visiting her place for Christmas, which was her cheap excuse to justify to them why she cheated on me.

    The exact opposite was the case where she threatened to blackmail me if I didn’t do something, which she then did anyway. Didn’t realise I was on the ace spectrum until years later.

    You don’t solve the issues you face by diminishing those of others.

    • TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zoneM
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      14 days ago

      The post is not a good argument and is not trying to be a good argument because it copies an infamous bad argument about women being sexually assaulted. I’m sorry you experienced what sounds like sexual coercion of your own in the past.

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      14 days ago

      I know I’m sorry doesn’t make it better, especially from an internet stranger, but you have my sympathies anyways.

      I hope you’re in a better place now at least.

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      14 days ago

      Sorry that that happened to you but I doubt you’ll get a ton of sympathy, things like this posted on female centric communities never do

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        14 days ago

        A person bears their soul about something horrible that happened to them, and you hijack their post in order to shit on women. Real class act you are

      • NιƙƙιDιɱҽʂ@lemmy.world
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        13 days ago

        Dude, the whole thing was satire from the get-go. I’m sure many women, myself included, can sympathize. I’m sorry you went through that, @Binzy_Boi@piefed.ca