transcription: why are men so afraid of being falsely accused? just stay inside, dont put yourself in situations like this, dont go out alone especially at night, dont drink, dress modestly so women dont mistake you for predators, always be polite so you dont “provoke” women

  • dandelion (she/her)@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    14 天前

    not just social conservatives, this is just the default way most people think about women and femininity - we assume women are inherently sexual and “have” the sex that men want to “take” from them. Even a liberal woman might feel ashamed for having large breasts, for example. When you have large breasts you can be perceived by others as being slutty just for wearing normal clothes.

        • KT-TOT@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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          13 天前

          No, that’s just what social conservatives want you to think. If you grew up with it, it’s because you were taught that by your parents. Who were taught that by their parents, etc.

          if it was the default they wouldn’t put so much goddamned effort into brainwashing it in. Other cultures don’t have the same values.

          Kill the cop in your head.