transcription: “i want a trans gf” mfs when they see a post op trans woman

  • Hildegarde@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    18 days ago

    Chasers want to date a girl with a penis. They get upset knowing a trans woman had bottom surgery, because their interest is purely fetishistic in nature.

    The “op” is bottom surgery. I’m pretty sure the term pre/post op is in poor taste at best, probably worse but not certain.

      • kerrigan778@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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        18 days ago

        The line is generally one of respect. Not a lot of cis women like the idea of guys who mostly care about their vagina either. Makes one wanna choose the bear.

        • the_crotch@sh.itjust.works
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          17 days ago

          Realistically though, each partners genitalia is a big part of sexual expression. Imo it would be best if society got to a point where it was ok to have a preference and ok to express it without people thinking it’s creepy

          • pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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            16 days ago

            It’s perfectly reasonable, normal, and expected to not just have a preference but also to not be attracted to different types of genitals. It gets creepy when it becomes about your genitals and not you. It’s the same vein of creepy as someone with a race fetish.