• stebo@sopuli.xyz
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    2 months ago

    Let’s be honest, most men that use dating apps are those looking for hookups. So if you’re a woman looking for tge same then go ahead but you’re not gonna find a long term partner there unless if you’re one of the lucky few

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      2 months ago

      I don’t know a lot of people that use dating apps but in my anecdotal experience all the male friends I know that use them are actually looking for a good long-term relationship. But you’re probably right that they are a minority.

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      2 months ago

      None of the men I know that are using the apps are looking for hookups. There are many such men, but there are lots of people looking for other stuff as well.

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          2 months ago

          What do you possibly base this on, the idea that men only care about sex and can’t want relationships?

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          2 months ago

          Same with my male friends. I also met my wife on an app. This might be more of a you experience thing.

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            2 months ago

            I also met my wife on an app.

            ok so you’re one of those lucky few