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  • xor@lemmy.dbzer0.comtoGreentext@sh.itjust.worksAnon is worried about men
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    11 hours ago

    i’d say incel is when you blame women as a group… basically misogyny….

    i guess, i’ve seen incels blame society as a whole… and have a few valid observations mixed in with a bunch of insane beliefs. i suppose any good cult has that.

    but, if you say dating culture sucks and you’re not playing the game, that’s not incel but is disenfranchised… or disgruntled….

    if you say society has programmed you to need a barbie doll girlfriend/servant and you deserve it and hate everyone, refuse to work on yourself at all, and bitterly polish your gun, that’s incel….

    it’s possible to not fit in mainstream society without being completely antisocial…
    toxic masculinity/machismo is a thing, and it’s reinforced by everyone who’s been indoctrinated… that doesn’t mean every individual is a horrible piece of shit, but it also doesn’t mean you should try to emulate some macho ideal to compete.

    the guy who gets all the interest at the bar is probably not going to be very attractive at the open mic or event feeding homeless people or whatever… everyone is an “alpha” in different situations, human groups overlap, and incel is a direct result of autistic people thinking PUA culture is the base level of society and human interaction….






  • gen x and y are bullshit arbitrary classifications based on years…. (boomer is based on a real event that makes that generation distinct, so that makes sense)
    the true computer masters are the Oregon Trail generation… if you remember the Oregon Trail video game in elementary school, you grew up with computers everywhere but just the terminal and no pictures, and got to interact with it evolving into weird pocket computers and shit….






  • i’m bringing incel culture here? did you notice notice this is a post about “incel culture” from and incel?
    besides, the notion that a financially unstable man has a hard time dating is not an incel concept… it’s just straight up reality.
    i’ve even seen good reasoning regarding a woman’s risk of pregnancy vs a man’s risk….

    i could go on, but it’s a straight up fact that: no money -> no honey

    and i do not blame women, i blame capitalism and patriarchy.

    incidentally i actually met their hero, Elliot Rogers… aka, the incel school shooter….
    he was very rich, his dad directed Hunger Games… aside from being a psychopathic piece of shit, incel has nothing to do with money, it’s about how they think they can’t get laid with their idolized tall blond woman without being a chad or whatever….

    tl;dr the bar is low but definitely includes financial stability… not wealth.