It legitimately is. I saved 14 seconds on my boot time by removing snap. That may not sound like much but when you are just looking at a black screen for 14 seconds after getting past grub, it seems a world of difference.

I know it may sound cliche but, just being kind, honest, and actually listening goes a long way. The best isnt about being perfect. Its about showing up, caring, and trying. That being said, breaks usually happen for a reason. It might help to think about what you both need going forward.