In case you also wonder like op why no one likes you, it’s probably the elite snobbery and superiority complex.

Are you sure he’s not the successor to the throne after daddy is dead? It seems like many people would want him.

What does this have to do with America?

The only people that don’t use tap to pay in my area are grannies. And you do seem very old school since the last time I saw an aux cable was 10 years ago.

The guy he answered is showing a worse persona than your description throughout this whole thread and you haven’t really shown any kindness yourself.

Also you being insecure and uncultured doesn’t automatically make others around you pedantic and snobby.

Who are these people? Guy asked you for legendary and you went niche. There are plenty of talented women that have written and performed legendary songs that you could have chosen.

But I am sorry for defending him. He seems like an incel himself and kind of a dick.

I don’t remember which website, but there is one where both sign-up and log-in pages look the same. If you fill your username and password in the sign-up page, but you already have that account they log you in instead. If you put the details in the log-in page but that account doesn’t exist they send you to the full sign-up page.

I thought that’s pretty neat.

The shopping realization for me is that I can’t find this kind of graphs online with my average ass searching skills.

I can find linear graphs from the last 200 years or log graphs from the last 2000, but not what is show in this picture. No ship average joes think it looks natural, I’m convinced no one sees this graph, they see the shitty confusing ones. I bet many people don’t have any idea what a log graph even is.

For the latest anime episode discussion where do I go? On https://lemmy.world/c/anime? Or lemmy.ml/c/anime? Or https://ani.social/c/anime? https://lemmit.online/c/anime? https://jlai.lu/c/anime? https://adultswim.fan/c/anime? https://lemmy.eco.br/c/anime? https://sopuli.xyz/c/anime? https://feddit.nl/c/anime?

Now we need an army of mods for every community instead of a few for just the one. IMO lemmy will never scale in this state.

The sad part is that all these issues have been known for a while now and none if them have been tackled at all so far.

How amazing would it be if you could just link your account with any instance at any time? My instance is down? No worries, I connect using another.

What if that community you are interested in doesn’t have its’ users split on 4 different instances making it even more niche than before?

What if when I create an account I get a list of suggested instances and a mini description so I don’t have to immediately know what I’m doing and learn about this later? With proper account migration I could change this anytime I want.

On top of all of that I keep hearing the mod tools are atrocious.

When was the last time a major feature was added to lemmy? I think the only hope now is a different competitor on ActivityPub like piefed.

What is it with everyone being obsessed with porn censorship suddenly? Why is this a trend?

At first I thought it’s about control and data gathering, but this seems like too much of a genuine attempt at such a system. Why is the government so obsessed with parenting and nannying the citizens?

Hate that the solution to endless passwords is to carry a password database everywhere I go. So I can use my password while I use my password.

So you have the same password for everything? Which would mean a single password leak would compromise all of your accounts?

I know it’s kind of a trend but I think that is the case because so many people identify with it.

I wouldn’t have cared about the label itself it if wouldn’t have come with a vast amount of knowledge and explanations for many aspects of my life. This is why I cared about this and why I talk about it with others, because deep diving into the topic has helped me learn a lot more about myself more than anything else in my life and it explains many of my interactions with others as well as other peoples behaviours.

And to be honest many of the struggles of people on the authism and ADHD spectrum are not really something that can be solved with typical self improvement tactics, it’s something to manage or maybe to medicate, but if you haven’t found out that you fit the label it would be impossible to figure this out.

Think about your average Joe/Joanne. Are they someone who are willing to go against the status quo? Are they someone always ready to try new things? Are they someone not afraid to express themselves and be an actual individual?

That’s why it’s called normal because it’s the most widespread, but I agree with you, normal is not something I want in my life and that already puts me on a spectrum somewhere.

This is just my opinion. Lemmy doesn’t conform to many of the current standards of reduced friction for the user. Before joining you have to figure out that there are more than one servers that you could join and make a decision which one you want to be on and depending on your choice you have to take a mini interview and/or be approved by someone to join. After joining you probably either deal with an ugly page design that someone created like in the hi5/GeoCities days or you have to choose one of the milion apps that are available for it. While browsing you have to figure out that there are duplicate communities and figure out which ones you want to subscribe to and figure out what kind of sorting works best for you on your main page. And in order to discover more communities you go to All where you see a bunch of unhinges stuff that either you learn how to block or you ignore.

By the time you are having a seamless experience you have truly past the test of being somewhere on the spectrum, because no normal person will ever put up with all this, as could be seen with the user gain of mastodon vs bluesky after Twitter went to shit. The platform with less friction even though more closed and proprietary gained more users.

In recent years we’ve come to the conclusion that autism is much broather than previously understood and than many more people fall om its’ spectrum. People that have an account on a platform like Lemmy are automatically highly probably autistic in some way because or the barrier to entry and specific interests that normal people wouldn’t even bother with.

So you’ve learned today that you can just say someone’s name as an equivalent to an exasperated "bro… "

True, what you described is basically all there is to it, but in my opinion the corrupted versions where the SM is doing backlog management or where the rest of the company structure doesn’t change just the dev team are more damaging than the more codified versions of it.

Sure, part of the job of the SM is to teach a PO that they need to research the market, but bridging the gap sounds like your saying the SM should find these things out for themselves and that’s just not true. The SM by definition is less technically minded that the PO. They deal with processes, data and people, not with product specs and market research.