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  • 9bananas@lemmy.worldtoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.worldTeach the children.
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    1 month ago

    eh, discord started catering to people using it as a forum, so they are actively making the problem worse…

    they introduced pseudo-forum channels where messages are grouped into threads, like a traditional forum…of course not indexed, and with their signature terrible “last message first” sorting, and terrible UI that doesn’t do any of the things a forum is supposed to be good at…

    so yeah, discord absolutely belongs to the other awful internet diseases you mentioned, it’s not an exception…


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    you shouldn’t use it because it’s a black hole for information.

    anything out on discord should be treated as deleted, because it inevitably will disappear one day, with no hope of recovery.

    when a public forum is indexable that means that projects like archive.org and wayback machine can save the contents, even if the site itself disappears some day, meaning the information is preserved for future generations.

    communities use discord way more than they should, and all that those communities create is effectively non-existent. most of it is already as good as gone.

    think of modding communities, which are by far the worst offenders when it comes to discord: not only are way too many mods hosted on discord itself, way too many communities are only sort-of indexed through discord, meaning the links to where the actual files are hosted can only be accessed through discord. so even if the files survive the inevitable purge, they are lost anyways.

    so many communities have already just… disappeared without warning, because the server got nuked for one reason or another, often completely idiotic reasons. and all the knowledge stored on those is gone. forever.

    that’s why discord is insanely bad for the internet as a whole, but for data driven communities especially.

    it would be fine if people only used it for what it was meant to do, chatting, but misusing it as a forum is where the problems begin.

    it gets even worse when people insist on using it as a support channel: questions and answers are constantly buried and impossible to find, search engines can’t show you the contents, so you don’t even know that your problems even have answers, questions are constantly repeated over and over, even though they’ve already been answered, and on and on the list goes.

    discord is bad for communities. it is destructive. it is insanely divisive!

    there’s a trend for every single creator/author to have their own server!

    so instead of having one big community, where users can easily find information and content, and creators can easily exchange ideas and concepts, you get tiny splinters that either don’t talk to each other, or don’t even realize they exist at all!

    and all of that is completely hidden behind opaque “search” and “discover” algorithms that only serve what discord itself thinks the user wants.

    it’s top to bottom terrible for communities, but people flock to it anyways, for all the wrong reasons.

    discord is the bane of online social groups!

    and the worst part is: you are absolutely FORCED to use it, because damn near everyone uses it! and there’s no alternative way to access it, you HAVE to use it! that alone should set off alarm bells!




  • generally a very good point, however i feel it’s important to point out some important context here:

    the pedophiles you’re talking about in your comment are almost always members of tight knit communities that share CSAM, organize distribution, share sources, and most importantly, indulge their fantasies/desires together.

    i would think that the correlation that leads to molestation is not primarily driven by the CSAM itself, but rather the community around it.

    we clearly see this happening in other similarly structured and similarly isolated communities: nazis, incels, mass shooters, religious fanatics, etc.

    the common factor in radicalization and development of extreme views in all these groups is always isolation and the community they end up joining as a result, forming a sort of parallel society with it’s own rules and ideals, separate from general society. over time people in these parallel societies get used to seeing the world in a way that aligns with the ideals of the group.

    nazis start to see anyone not part of their group as enemies, incels start to see “females” instead of women, religious fanatics see sinners…and pedophiles see objects that exist solely for their gratification instead of kids…

    I don’t see why molesters should be any different in this aspect, and would therefore argue that it’s the communal aspect that should probably be the target of the law, i.e.: distribution and organization (forums, chatrooms, etc.)

    the harder it is for them to organize, the less likely these groups are to produce predators that cause real harm!

    if on top of that there is a legally available outlet where they can indulge themselves in a safe manner without harming anyone, I’d expect rates of child molestation to drop significantly, because, again, there’s precedence from similar situations (overdoses in drug addicts, for example)

    i think it is a potentially fatal mistake to think of pedophiles as “special” cases, rather than just another group of outcasts, because in nearly all cases of such pariahs the solutions that prove to work best in the real world are the ones that make these groups feel less like outcasts, which limits avenues of radicalization.

    i thought these parallels are something worth pointing out.



  • all of the words you listed that use a soft g are loanwords from other languages (pretty sure they’re all french) soooo…yeah. no wonder those have different pronunciation.

    when you look at anglo-saxon words the difference becomes clear:

    • gift
    • graveyard
    • ground
    • gay

    all hard g’s.

    mixing up languages is the common denominator here.

    the G in GIF stands for graphical, neither english nor french in origin, hence the confusion about pronunciation.

    alternatively; English is a terrible mess, and the only “correct” pronunciation is reached through general consensus. if the majority pronounces something a certain way, that’s how it should be pronounced.


  • you don’t have a choice when it comes to data collection:

    if it’s allowed literally every manufacturer WILL do it!

    see: the exact situation we’re currently in!!

    so, no, you don’t have a choice (other than buying an older model).

    this isn’t how “the market” does anything.

    there’s no downside to outlawing spyware in cars.

    and it hasn’t made anything cheaper, what the hell kind of cope is that??


  • i absolutely love it when it’s paired with manual transmission and an auto-break function:

    when you stop, for example at a red light, and press the break while standing still for a bit, it goes into auto-break mode.

    when you then release the clutch while in gear (neutral gets ignored), it automatically releases the hand break, so you can perform a hand break assisted start from standstill without having to touch the actual hand break!

    this is excellent when you’ve stopped at an incline, and generally really useful!

    but i get the skepticism…i was extremely skeptical at first too, but you get used to it quickly and then it feels weird when it’s missing or turned off in another car… there’s just no reason not to use this feature it’s simply great!



  • because barely anyone even knows about HUDs, since there are barely any vehicles in the “won’t cost you both kidneys” price segment with HUDs in them…

    …but yes, they really should be in every car. it’s just a no-brainer for safety, for the exact reason you said: simply having your speed right in your field of view alone is worth it!