• intensely_human@lemm.ee
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    3 months ago

    Generally speaking those who haven’t encountered evil think reports of evil are exaggeration and myth.

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      3 months ago

      Conversely, those who have encountered evil have a tendency to overestimate how much evil there actually is.

      See also: PTSD, trust issues, control freaks. Possibly martyr syndrome/victim complex.

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        3 months ago

        Yes. As Bruce Lee says, don’t be tense; be ready.

        The optimal is to recognize that all situations warrant readiness for evil, which doesn’t have to mean actually seeing evil everywhere one goes.

        I carry a knife at all times, because I was jumped by a drunk guy while homeless. He threw me down and kicked my head repeatedly until others pulled him off me. He did it because I asked him if he could spare a dollar.

        But the other night, I was sitting at a traffic light. Three people walked by, two men and a woman. They were all giving me hostile stares.

        I rolled down my window and said “Do you guys have a problem with me?” and they just said “No you’re just so cute”. The guys were gay I guess.

        Realized I broke the rule of being ready, but not tense.

        I appreciate your reminder, too.