• webdox@lemmy.world
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    12 hours ago

    The worst thing I ever did was get married and have kids. Now all grown and left, cept the special one, and I realize every day I could have pulled this misery and isolation off all by myself and would be surrounded by French Bulldogs and not regrets.

    • sugar_in_your_tea@sh.itjust.works
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      7 hours ago

      Yup, a wife and kids aren’t for everyone.

      I’m happily married with kids, but I tell people who ask to not have kids. The ones who want kids will ignore me, and the ones who don’t won’t guilt themselves into having them. Far too many people have kids they don’t want.