• stinky@redlemmy.com
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    2 days ago

    cool lol thanks

    just fyi you keep repeating this pattern: “here’s a specific thing you should enjoy. Later, here’s a general rule which will often invalidate the previous statement” and it’s just kind of hard to follow. but. thanks for the response

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      14 hours ago

      It helps if you’re not vague when asking for clarification and quote what the issue is directly, the made-up quote doesn’t really help if you wish to get an actual helpful response.

      people should be friends with people who litter, and politely encourage them to improve their behavior?

      My response: Make friends first without requirements

      Or that they should walk away from people that litter?

      response: Learn who they are and why they do things before passing judgement. From there, evaluate what kind of relationship you want with the person going forward (is this a co-worker? Someone from a friend group? What kind of relationship is required to move forward)

      You can make friends…then unmake if necessary. If that’s your confusion.

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        2 hours ago

        or we can make friends however we want, lol, it’s weird that you think you’re our life coach. let people pick friends however they want buddy, there’s no need to tell everyone else how to live