• anachrohack@lemmy.world
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    7 hours ago

    If the person is well known to me, I would say he/she (if that’s their pronouns), not the 3rd person “they”

    • Soup@lemmy.world
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      7 hours ago

      Oh, to be there when you say “they” haha

      Or to watch you struggle to force yourself to say he/she so I “lose”.

      It’s ok, we’ve only been doing it for hundreds of years; it’s just a passing fad, right?

      • anachrohack@lemmy.world
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        7 hours ago

        I feel like you’re obtusely ignoring the difference in context between how the non-binary “they” is used (which is a new phenomenon) and how the 3rd person of indefinite gender “they” is used