• Track_Shovel@slrpnk.netOP
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    19時間前

    If I ended up single again at my age, I don’t think I would try again. Not due to difficulty, but just apathy. Been there, done that, got the T-Shirt. I’m my own human now, doing my own stuff.

    It would definitely suck to be single again, and I’d mourn what I lost, but there’s more to life

    • Brave Little Hitachi Wand@lemmy.world
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      18時間前

      Yeah same. For one thing the odds - what am I, Roy Sullivan? - but real talk, I only had lightning strike that time by not dating, having a multi-year dry spell in my twenties, and only pursuing someone I knew was special and spending ages talking to them. If that’s going to ever happen again, it won’t be because I forced anything.