• The Picard Maneuver@lemmy.worldOP
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    8 days ago

    It’s my biggest gripe with political dialogue these days. People are extremely tribal and close themselves off from their neighbors, families, friends, over ideology, relying on their heavily curated bubble to inform them of what the other side is saying/doing.

    I try to call it out when I see it, but it feels like a losing battle. Your neighbors aren’t your enemy. Isolating ourselves only benefits the “ruling class”, or whatever we want to call it.

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      8 days ago

      It’s hard to be friendly to MAGA hat wearing coworkers when they casually throw in an open borders joke while you personally know someone who’s undocumented but has been living here for decades. It’s worth keeping a little distance from those people.

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        This. I mean, you can find common ground with these people, but it’s WORK! It’s constant, it’s 100% on you, and if you touch any of the programmed hot buttons, you’re back to square one. Some of them are so deep in the matrix that they’re living in an entirely different reality. I’ve unironically had an easier time talking with people about all the different species of ET that have supposedly visited earth. 10/10 would hang with the Pleiadeians before MAGAs.

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        That’s why the propaganda is so effective. If we cut off the head.of fox News, OANN, etc. These people wpuldnt be like this.

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      7 days ago

      It’s hilarious that literally minutes after your comment someone replied with, “BUT MY NEIGHBOR REALLY IS THE ENEMY!”

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        Im not going to be friends with someone that calls me a fucking groomer because I am trans. Sorry that its so hard for you to understand that some people have skin in the game and can’t make marry with people that have actively caused harm to them.