For the same reason we don’t have productive political debates anymore, people don’t have productive interpersonal relations anymore. Everyone withdrawing to their internet safe spaces has made a whole generation of men and women who instead of talking to each other, read horrible stories from other men and women and retreat further and further from actually talking to each other.

Now when you put a young man and woman in the same room together, they’re both on edge because both their minds are consumed with anxiety about what the other is “planning.”